You know, if someone told you in 8th grade that
science was going to help you get laid someday, I bet you would have paid a
heck of a lot more attention in class.
Beauty may be "in the eye of the beholder,"
but I cannot help but notice that what is perceived as beauty varies to some
extent from country to country.
In The United
States of Central North America and Europe, slimness seemed, until fairly
recently, to be in vogue. But if you travel to the Middle East or India, that
never seemed (beefy men and or women wealthier??? to be as true; the images of
beauty you see on the covers of magazines and in movies often have wide hips
(in women), or are rather large and beefy (in men).
So, I thought I'd research the topic a bit, to see if there
are any universally accepted standards for what constitutes attractiveness, in
the sense of finding an attractive partner, be it male or female.
What I found was interesting Most standards of what is
considered attractive – especially sexually attractive – seem to be based on
whether the person appears to be healthy and fits the description of the GLOBAL
HUMAN HYBRID.
There seems to be
a universal appreciation for bodies that are average, and that don't stand out
too much from the NORM.
That is, neither too tall nor too short, neither too
skinny nor too fat. This has been theorised to have something to do with a
subconscious appreciation for the mechanics of genetics, in that
"average" is an indicator of the absence of genes that are
potentially maladaptive.
But most of the qualities that men and women list as
attractive tend to be traits that are associated with good physical health, which
is either consciously or unconsciously associated with good reproductive
health.
What are the Individual
Traits Universally Accepted as Attractive?
There are many such traits, but in the following
points I'll present an overview of some that have been recognised by
psychologists and social scientists all over the world:
• Clear skin. In both sexes, having skin that looks
healthy and is free of acne, rashes, and other indications of possible systemic
imbalance is considered healthy and attractive.
• Good hair. In both men and women, having hair that
is lustrous and vibrant and that looks healthy and well-cared-for is considered
a sign of attractiveness. In women, long hair is almost always considered
attractive; scientists tend to believe that this is because only someone who is
in good physical health can grow hair longer than, say, just below their
shoulders. Waist-length hair indicates extremely good physical – and thus
reproductive – health.
• In men, strong bodies. In almost all cultures, men
who have a classic "V-shaped" torso are considered attractive. Other
features considered attractive in men include having wide shoulders and strong
arms, and a waist-to-hip ratio of about 1.0.
• In women, "classic" bodies. Interestingly,
given the obsession we see in recent years with being model-thin, this is not
what most men cite as attractive. They are more attracted to women who have
fuller hips and buttocks (possibly because that is unconsciously associated
with easier childbirth), and a waist-to-hip ratio of 0.7.
• An attractive body often "offsets" a less
attractive face. In studies around the world, this has been found to be true
both for men and women, far more often than the opposite. Again, there seems to
be a health and reproductive health tie-in.
• Smiles are all-important. This is consistent in all
cultures. The quality of a man or woman's smile is often listed as the most
important consideration as to whether they are attractive or not. This makes
sense both physically and psychologically, because the quality of one's teeth
is another health issue, and the ability to smile naturally and often is a good
indicator of how much happiness and sense of self-worth the person has.
• Hygiene. Cleanliness and a sense of caring enough
about oneself to keep one's body, hair, skin, and clothing clean and
fresh-looking is universally considered attractive, possibly again because it's
a good indicator – in both men and women – of the person's sense of self-worth
and well-being, and thus their psychological health.
Following are traits, both physical and behavioural,
that actual scientific research has
found that women find attractive in men. These are not mere assumptions or
opinions, but actual conclusions that behavioural scientists have come to
following extensive research.
Fact 1: Height Matters
Nearly 50% of women claimed that they’d prefer to date
a man who’s taller than they were. But how did the stereotype of TALL, dark and
handsome come about? Well, social psychologists claim that most women are
psychologically geared towards finding taller men attractive because most of
our world’s cultures regard tall men as embodiment of all that is masculine.
But some scientists believe that the reasons for this
go even deeper. A group of researchers from the University of Utah published a
study which puts forth the idea that a woman’s preference for taller men
actually dates back to our caveman days. In a time and age where physical
protection of her and her potential offspring were integral to a woman, she
would have been evolutionary geared to gravitate towards taller men who had a
clear physical advantage in a confrontation. And although this advantage might
seem a little less important in a modern day context, the researchers still
believe that this evolutionary programming to find taller men more attractive
is still deeply embedded in the female psyche.
Fact 2: A bit of Stubble
Helps
There’s a reason
why actors like George Clooney, Brat Pitt rock the
two-days-without-a-shave look. they understand that women dig a bit of stubble.
It’s one of the bad-boy trademarks that women have a soft (and wet) spot for.
Fact: a group of
Australian researchers from The University of New South Wales conducted a
survey with over 350 women on their preferences for male facial hair, and the
overwhelming majority agreed that a bit of stubble was the way to go. Experts
in human evolutionary psychology even claim that from an evolutionary
standpoint, men with a bit of stubble would have been considered more dominant,
masculine, aggressive and socially mature.
Fact 3: A Deep
Voice is More Attractive
Ask any woman who
she would rather hookup with (based on their voices alone) and the chances are
that she’ll pick the stud with deepest voice. But why is it
that women in general seem to find men with deeper, huskier voices more
attractive? Well, according to a bunch of researchers from University College
London, it’s because women perceive a deeper voice as a sign of a larger and
stronger physicality; something that women are evolutionary geared to find
attractive.
But, What if Your
Voice Isn’t Honey-in-Your-Ears Husky? Well as a singer
I can tell you that the voice is an incredibly versatile instrument that can be
tailored quite a bit. So if you’re not happy with the squeak that you’re
producing when you talk to women, sign up for a few voice training or speaking
lessons, and you’ll be surprised with how much versatility you’ll find in your
voice.
Fact 4: An
Athletic Body
Now before you
hit the gym and load up on protein supplements, read ahead. Researchers have
found that out of all the body shapes, women in general seem to prefer a
“V-shaped” athletic body on a man; that is to say a strong and well-defined
musculature on the upper body and a narrow and slim waist. So if you’re lacking
in this department, it might be time to get yourself an advantage with a good
exercise and diet plan.
Wearing clothes that fit perfectly is another good
idea. A well-tailored blazer will often give the impression of broad shoulders
while V-neck t-shirts can help make your torso look slimmer (Elvis Presley in
most of his movie roles).
Fact 5: Slower
Movements
Look at any TYPICAL
alpha male character from a movie and the first thing that you’ll notice is
that they seem to do everything extra slow. Take any Clint Eastwood character
for instance. He hardly says more than a few dozen words in a movie but he still
looks like the coolest fucking guy ever. In fact,
researchers have found that men who have slower movements and speech are often
perceived as more at ease and confident, and thus, more attractive. So start
paying attention to the speed at which you operate in day-to-day life. Slowing down
might feel unnatural at first, but with practice it will become second nature.~~Al (Alex-Alexander D Girvan.
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